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Look with hope
Sometimes when we grieve, we tend to forget that life does not go on forever. If you have ever watched the movie "Hope Floats" you will remember that famous statement made by Birdie's mother. "What?! Do you think life just goes on forever? That you just get chance, after chance, after chance?!" Those words really help put things into perspective, to remind us of what we often seem to forget, that is--to remember what is important in life and what isn't. That life is very short, and the time we have is precious. This editorial of Erma Bombeck really opens our eyes on what we tend to overlook in our times of grief: Life does not go on forever. No day waits for you. Time continues without you, and the world keeps moving. Remember your ex was most likely an idiot for losing a great woman like you. Don't let him steal your precious moments of life away. Don't let him have power over your time. I hope Erma Bombeck's honest observations will encourage you to let go and move on:
If I had My Life to Live Over
by Erma Bombeck
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained and the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would never have insisted the car windows
be rolled up on a summer day
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television - and more while watching life.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would
never have said,
There would have been more "I love you's".. more "I'm sorry's"... but mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it... live it...and never give it back.
Remember to seize every minute...
look at it and really see it... live it...
but most of all...never give it back!
The great thing about life...
The great thing about life is that time does not exist! It is a ghost, a delusion if you will. Yesterday is just an illusion, tomorrow will never come, and This Moment is gone before I am finished saying "This Moment". This 'moment' will virtually NEVER exist! Time is not a thing, it has no substance...you can't touch it, you can't feel it...IT CAN'T IMPRISON YOU. It is not a verb, it has no action (we give it action, without our biological-life Time is powerless), it shows no course. It is not an adverb, an adjective, or a pronoun. It is not a conjunction. In other words we should know not the QUANTITY of our life, or our TIME spent on this Earth--but we should value the QUALITY of our life. TIME has no meaning--it is simply a vessel of which we carry our burdens and grief over to our souls. I don't know if any of this is making much sense to you...I'm trying to explain to you that it is NEVER too late. There is so much happiness out there waiting for you. There are oceans of joy waiting to be surfed, rivers of love waiting to be rafted, and mountains of rewards beckoning to be scaled. TIME WAITS FOR NO-ONE! You may now feel very lonely, and sad, and your life may seem to be lacking joy, and fun, and happiness, and ESPECIALLY spontaneity---all those things that give our lives QUALITY. You may feel like you'll never be happy again. This is just not the case! This is the grief, the withdrawal talking. This is your minds way of fighting letting go. Don't try to fall out of love with your ex, because this is impossible. It is a mistake to think that just because the relationship is over that we should instantly stop loving. Feel the love for your ex in your heart, no one says you have to 'fall out of love'...just as you cannot will your lungs not to breathe, your heart not to beat---you CANNOT will yourself not to love someone. It is impossible! The secret is to acknowledge your love for your ex, keep him/her in your heart, and then open your heart back up! Love him/her by all means, with your heart---but with your head acknowledge and accept that the relationship is over, and move on. I urge you not to waste another moment of your life---you'll never get it back. ~~Tigress Luv, the Breakup Guru
The winds of change
are always blowing,
NOTE: I read this post on a message board somewhere. Although it says OUCH! it does have certain merit (I think). Anyway, it was posted by a man and I just wonder what your opinions are. The message I got from it was "Oh, ouch, I need to get a life!" To read this post, click here.
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