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The Gemini Prospective mates:

Excellent Chance: Libra. Aquarius.

Good Chance: Aries. Taurus. Gemini. Cancer. Leo.

Fair Chance:  Virgo. Sagittarius. Pisces.

Fat Chance: Scorpio. Capricorn.

The Gemini as your ex: You may never be able to tell if the Gemini is coming or going. This makes breaking up with the Gemini all that more difficult. "Is it really over?" "Will they change their mind?" "Will they even remember breaking up with me?" Odds are that if a Gemini has broken up with you they have given long, careful thought to their decision before they ended the relationship. Geminis may appear scatter-brained and unfocused but that's just the nature of their contradictory  moods, and somewhat inner conflict. Trust that they have given careful review to the issue at hand and have all angles covered. Their decision may have been based more on their inability to settle down than on you. Geminis are naturally inquisitive, and very difficult to pin-down. A loose rope and intellectual mind is needed to keep the Gemini at their best in a relationship. Objective reasoning is the only true way to capture the Gemini's attention. Listen carefully when a Gemini speaks for they don't mince their words. What they are saying is truly how they feel!

Too clever to pull anything over on them, don't even bother plotting and planning, or scheming to win back their heart. Geminis are too smart for that! A more logical approach, sprinkled with a little fun and good-natured laughs are more likely to capture their attention and hearts, than all the well laid-out plans in the world.

More than likely it was the Geminis restless nature that provoked the breakup and less any fault of yours. The Gemini mind needs to be constantly stimulated. For you this means that you should try to keep abreast of the latest news and philosophies. Geminis like variety, as being the ex of a Gemini you now realize. Their constant need for entertainment may make them seem fidgety and even bored, or unhappy in their relationships. Your Gemini mate may have even seemed flirtatious, causing you feelings of insecurity and uneasiness regarding their faithfulness and loyalty. Unfortunately, your suspicions were probably justified.

One good way to gain your Gemini's attention is to request them to help you with something. Geminis love to share themselves with others and willingly offer their assistance. Make it a fun, teasing event and you may have your foot at least back in the Gemini's door. A night on the town may also be too good an offer for the fun-loving Gemini to resist. Be open, unpredictable, and eager for new experiences to keep the Gemini actively interested in just you.

The Gemini as yourself: Although you are a story teller by nature, your need to talk with your ex may become a driving/consuming obsession. The driving force that keeps you rehashing your breakup over and over again. As a Gemini you are apt to feel much anxiety and nervous tension resulting from your breakup. However, feeling your most content with variety in your life you are likely to welcome the breakup as an opportunity to grow and learn, quickly adapting to your new found freedom. On the down side of this inquisitiveness is the unfortunate fact that you may probe and poke at every aspect of your breakup looking for the exact answer or reason...oh those consuming reasons, "why"!

You may try to use your quick wit to coerce and alter your ex's decision. Be careful, your sharp tongue may be entertainingly witty and logical one minute, but can quickly turn into cutting, offensive sarcasm the next. This can be very damaging, so bite your tongue! A more reliable method is to use your most treasured Gemini asset --and that is your ability to communicate effectively.

Geminis, being largely influenced by the Twins, have a lot of inner conflict. While one side of you may be unhappily contemplating the down-side implications surrounding your breakup, the other side of you may eagerly be looking forward to the challenge of your newly formed singlehood. Your ability to easily see both sides of the breakup can make you be compassionate, forgiving, and understanding toward your ex, while at the same time cause you to be somewhat self-blaming and motivated by guilt at your own role in the breakup. This makes you appear wishy-washy, perhaps even moody, to others. You may  have tried too hard to please your ex and felt like you have failed, but seriously, just how much can one person do? Even Geminis, with their vast versitality, have human limits. The plus side is that your great tendency to look at the big picture makes your grief stage short-lived and your self-blaming stage quickly dismissed. As a Gemini you are less likely to pour your whole reason for living into one person.

Because of the conflicting roles of the Twins Geminis are prone to being easily agitated. Watch out for anxiety, nervousness, and apprehension, or panicky feelings associated with your breakup..they will give you the false belief that you need your ex back more than you actually do. This is a good time to take up yoga, or practice deep-breathing techniques. Joining a gym or club, such as racquetball, volleyball, or biking, would be most beneficial to the Gemini going through a breakup.

Famous people who share  the Gemini Sun sign: Queen Victoria, Barbara Bush, Marilyn Monroe, John F Kennedy and Clint Eastwood.

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