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Revenge!!!! It's been over a month since my ex dropkicked me into anonymity with that overworked phrase, "I really like you, I just don't feel that way about you." Fine, I played 'no contact' and survived the 'anger,denial,bargaining,depression and acceptance' stages. Last Friday, she shows up at my regular drinking hole - arm in arm with her slack-jawed pothead 'hottie'. She gives me a glance, I return a smirk and we keep our distance. "Of all da' gin joints in da' world, she chooses mine to walk into," to quote Bogey from 'Casablanca'. Her motive? No doubt to survey the damage and gloat. The bartender - an absolute killer babe!- was well aware of lil' miss ex' bloated ego and offered to play a flirt game with her 'hottie'. Come the end of the night, I was leaving when my ex corners me with that other overworked phrase, "we can still be friends." She then adds, "you wanna meet Kent? He's super nice." "About as nice as you," I reply, handing her a napkin with a phone number scrolled on it. "That's Kent's number," she exclaimed, "and HIS writing!" I added, "he gave it to the bartender while you were in the washroom." Her jaw dusted the floor. "Looks like you're being used the same way I was. But don't worry. The bartender is far too classy, smart and has too much character to soil herself with a scumbag like Kent," I added. Then I left enjoying the elevated view one has with a newly formed spine. Subsequently, she's called me several times. Finally, I answered and told her "stop calling or I'll put call blocking on my number." Then, and I admit this is low but she'd said I physically repulsed her and she is soooo image conscious, I advised her to "...lose some weight. Grab hold of your looks, because you have nothing else to offer." Today she called again, crying for attention. I find it fascinating she is now pursuing me because I'm acting the cold "bad boy". Now, is this revenge..or empathy. Either way, I'm disgusted and ashamed at how I ever could love her. (And told her so.) And yes, I just put call blocking on. My feelings right now? Like Billy Hayes being tossed the keys to leave the Turkish prison in "Midnight Express". It's over and I survived. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
One Woman's
Revenge!!!! *** had been declaring his undying love for me......romancing me...etc., you know the story.....you've talked about his type often enough Tig. The commitment phobe. A week ago, *** and I went out to lunch with my best friend. She was so convinced that *** loved me, because of his body language and what he was saying. What he didn't tell me until this morning, was that he was attracted to her......very attracted....and he decided that it meant that I wasn't for him, or he wasn't for me. Oh this is so confusing.....my friend has nothing to do with this, I might add. I love her to bits. She is very shocked. So over the last few days, things have been a little strained. As you know I impulsively visited him. He didn't behave as though he wasn't pleased. In fact.....everything but. Then, Saturday night, things are even more strained on the phone. He still tells me he loves me. Okay....nothing to worry about. Then yesterday...more strained still. Too much going on blah blah.....caring for the boys, cleaning the house, doing his work, dealing with the solicitor, hating his soon to be ex-wife. Can't cope with me. Then he accuses me of deleting his buddy list from AOL. Excuse me? He had given me his password....but Tig, I truly had not gone to his account. I couldn't believe that he could suggest such a thing. I told him that AOL often had blips, but he just got angry and said he would speak to me the next day. He rings....gets angry that I was upset at his accusation. Tells me he can't cope...needs space, needs time. Thinks I'm a lovely person but wants things to slow up. So I agree. And just when I think things are back on even ground....bang. He mails me in the early hours......I am on the board or chatting...a very cold email. Telling me it's over, and not to try and change his mind. Says if I want the lurid details he will tell me...and to phone him. So I do, and his phone is switched off. And something tells me that all is not as it seems, and I did the most awful thing. He had a new screen name, I didn't know the password to it...but something told me that he would use an old password. So I did - and it worked... so I checked his mail. He had resumed communication with another internet friend, that he had previously ended communication with because of me. On Sunday night they had been out together. I know I shouldn't have done that....I feel so bad. But even worse.... I had accessed his screen name. So at about 04.30 this morning, I was on his screen name, and could see that he had started communicating with someone again. He had actually met her on Sunday night. His mails were very similar to the sort of thing he had said to me. I'm so sorry....that is evil thing number one.....Then, I deleted all his mail, changed all his settings, 'cos I know he doesn't know how to adjust all the settings...evil thing number two....then I memorize her screen name, log back into my own and send her every goddamned mail he ever sent me, love letter, poems, cards and all, right up until two days ago. Then I send a cover letter telling her why I've done it. Then I go back to ***'s name and mails her as him to say its not going to work......evils three and four. Then when I finally speak to *** on the phone he tells me about finding my best friend more than attractive and that's why he ended it. So I asked him about other women, and he said there was no one else. I asked about this woman and he denied it...so I just told him that I'd mailed every letter to her. Of course he was absolutely furious, and called me sick....which I possibly am....and told me that I may have ruined his life. He asked me to retrieve them, if I really cared. I tried to, but it was too late. She had opened every single one. So then I mailed her and apologised for my abominable behaviour, told her I acted impulsively because I was so hurt and angry, that it was very wrong of me, and that *** was basically a nice man, and I hoped that they could sort it out. He rang me this afternoon, and just said very coldly "I want you to know that you have utterly and completely ruined my life" and slammed the phone down. I'm so angry that I lowered myself to that level. I have never in all my life done anything so underhanded as that before. It was such a cruel thing to do. I don't know whether I am upset for hurting ***, or more for hurting that poor woman. Tig's note: I think the gal that wrote the above email to me just caught her vermin in his own trap - and he can chew his arm off all he wants to escape it - but .... hehe! |
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Another'sWoman's Revenge!!!! (Taken from an email i received) My ex left me soon after the birth of our son. So, once I found out where he was staying I sent him one of our son's dirty diapers. I wrapped it all up in a padded envelope. I found out later that when he opened the package he was with a big group of his friends!! I wish I could've been there to see the look on his face!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ And, now for a new twist..... The Wedding Photo This is supposedly a true story about a recent wedding that took place in Clemson, New York, USA. This was a huge wedding with about 300 guests. After the wedding, at the reception, the groom got up on stage at the microphone to talk to the crowd. He said that he wanted to thank everyone for coming, many from long distances, to support them at their wedding. He especially wanted to thank the bride and groom's families for coming and to thank his new father-in-law for providing such a fabulous reception. To thank everyone for coming and bringing gifts and such-like, he said he wanted to give everyone a special gift just from him. He told them all that taped to the bottom of everyone's chair was a manila envelope including a photo of the wedding party. He said that was his gift to everyone, and told everyone to open the envelopes. Inside each manila envelope was a 8x10 picture of his best man having sex with the bride. (He was suspicious of the two of them and had hired a private detective to trail them weeks prior to the wedding.) After he stood there and watched the people's reactions for a couple of minutes, he turned to the best man and said "Fuck you", he turned to thebride and said "Fuck you", and then he turned to the dumbfounded crowd and said "I'm out of here." He had the marriage annulled first thing that Monday morning. While most of us would have broken off the engagement immediately after finding out about the affair, this guy goes through with it anyway as if nothing was wrong. His revenge: Making the bride's parents pay over $32,000 for a 300 guest wedding and reception. Letting everyone know exactly what did happen. And best of all, trashing the bride's and best man's reputations in front of all of their friends, their entire families - parents, brothers, sisters, grandparents, nieces and nephews. Taken, with permission, from Mike Boyle's "Weird But True" web site (http://www.geocities.com/mikey_boyle) |
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